Armaegis
Modern Modder Man of Manitoba
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It's easy to spout wisdom. Saying and doing are vastly different things however.
I assume you must be the real life love doctor judging from your posts.
It's easy to spout wisdom. Saying and doing are vastly different things however.
Why assume that saying and doing are mutually exclusive?
I have done, and continue to do, all the things I suggested in my previous couple of posts.
This thread is starting to remind me of the Sound Science Forum!
I'm just saying that executing all the wisdom is sometimes easier said than done.
I am still capable of some phenomenally stupid things around women...
...which is why I am careful to emphasise that the principles I'm discussing are rooted primarily on a foundation of making an effort to improve one's level of cognitive awareness, as opposed to attempting to apply them on a purely intellectual level.
Meditation is pretty much the best way to improve cognitive awareness, because it increases the synchronisation of the brain hemispheres, and because it increases activity in certain areas of the cortex, and intercommunication between certain areas of the cortex. Over time, this has a profound influence on the degree to which a person is able to consciously 'witness' / observe the multitude of thought processes occurring in the subconscious mind. When one becomes able to consciously witness strings of thoughts that create an emotional response, one begins to be able to have a degree of conscious control over how one's emotional responses are created. This is hugely positive for an individual's emotional and mental health. I admit that this does sound weird and theoretical, but it isn't.
Yeah, me too. Ain't life fun? lol
This one time I was seated on a plane next to a stunningly gorgeous woman. We chatted, we flirted and laughed, I remained composed and dignified and all seemed well. Then she had to retrieve something from the overhead compartment and her blouse popped open. Even after composing herself, I was pretty much reduced to a blithering drooling child for the rest of the (mercifully short) flight.
p.s. they were fantastic
I once met a woman like that.
After talking to her for a while, I realized that her beauty was a burden to her.
It was apparent that she found it difficult to deal with men who couldn't get past her stunning looks!
Franky, it took me about an hour or two to get past it myself!
I think extremely beautiful, yet intelligent rational women, have a problem dealing with people in their day to day lives.......
In this thread, the main topic of discussion really is psychology!
wow, don't mean to go anymore OT on this thread, but I've never been so engaged in a thread. Since this thread, I've been able to identify problems I seem to have by keeping myself emotionally, mentally and physically in check (I have WAY to many mental/emotional problems such as emotional un-stability, uncontrolled eating, lack of self-confidence, random sudden increases in cockiness and rude traits similar to that and a lack of productivity to name a few).
I once met a woman like that.
After talking to her for a while, I realized that her beauty was a burden to her.
It was apparent that she found it difficult to deal with men who couldn't get past her stunning looks!
Franky, it took me about an hour or two to get past it myself!
I think extremely beautiful, yet intelligent rational women, have a problem dealing with people in their day to day lives.......
I disagree. There's far more 'bad dates' stories in this thread than there is psychology. But plenty of bad dates have, at their foundation, some psychological quirks. Probably more due to that than to pure bad luck, I reckon.
All part of life's rich tapestry, no?
So would you say my encounters with the stalker and the transvestite are due to luck, or psychology?
A lot of the advice given in this thread is really just "common sense" under a different guise. Treat women as people, not objects. Be confident in yourself. Know yourself.
Most things just boil down to respect and understanding, of both yourself and those around you. Recognize attraction for what it is; don't glamourize or force it. Etc etc.