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"When the time is right, you will find the answer within your heart."
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This is exactly the way I feel about my husband and the commitment we’ve made to each other by getting married. I’m very spoiled too (another surprise
) and I wouldn’t think of changing my selfish ways if it wasn’t for my guy. Thinking in terms of “us” was very challenging until I met him, he made it easy just by being a good man, I was ready for a commitment and everything fell into place. I used to think I'd be single forever and now I love being married.
Same with kids, I didn't want any and I hated how my family was always pressuring me to get pregnant. Like being a childless woman is wrong or something.
We were happily married for five years before we had our son, that's how I know that couples can be happy without kids. Well, we had a happy accident and now I'm growing motherly instincts I never suspected I had. Mom+dad working together to raise kids with strong family values as the nucleus of society with God's approval and blessings.
Bowraboy: not afraid to get old alone, although "growing old together" sounds romantic to me.
I also agree with Tyll about eHarmony. I found my husband on the yahoo personals, back when it was free.
I had a chance to pick and choose among many good guys and I don’t have any buyer’s remorse. Good deal.
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Sounds a little boring but is true.
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Originally Posted by jjcha I think Ken's right. I don't know what's different with this girl, versus the ones I've dated in the past. I've had relatively serious relationships (2 - 3 years) with some girls that I certainly could have happily lived the rest of my life with. But I don't know. It didn't feel right. I suspect I just wasn't ready. Maybe only now after having gone through those relationships and being a little bit older (I'm 31), this time it feels right. The idea of sharing the rest of my life with this girl is very comforting to me. Not because of ephemeral love or anything. There is that. But as that there is a person I want to have a deep, committed, relationship with. That life is no longer just about me (and believe me, life was very good when it was just about me), but it's about us. It's going to be hard, because to a large degree, I'm used to being a selfish, spoiled, self-centered brat (heh, if you haven't noticed). But my life is just richer and more rewarding with her in it and I don't feel that will change. I feel it will be even richer and more rewarding commiting to that on a permanent basis... |
This is exactly the way I feel about my husband and the commitment we’ve made to each other by getting married. I’m very spoiled too (another surprise
Same with kids, I didn't want any and I hated how my family was always pressuring me to get pregnant. Like being a childless woman is wrong or something.
Bowraboy: not afraid to get old alone, although "growing old together" sounds romantic to me.
I also agree with Tyll about eHarmony. I found my husband on the yahoo personals, back when it was free.
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Originally Posted by Tyll Marriage is much more about warm, comfy slippers, than about hot monkey sex---IMHO. |
Sounds a little boring but is true.