Hi,
Best measured HF is one thing, realism is another thing.
What are you searching for?
Short answer: I am searching for all possible options to demo at CanJam as I am treating myself to a ToTL IEM / CIEM upgrade (based on SQ, not price), and cannot afford to miss any comparisons as the UK is terrible for places to demo.
Long answer: I have demo'd a few different models already at different price points (Final, Meze, Shure, Campfire Audio, and 64 Audio) and found the U12T to hit most of my requirements, but the HF sounds a tad rolled off to my ears even though it still outperformed everything else, and the custom fit are apparently worse. It was audible, but well-known songs were missing that extra "sparkle" that you should hear with real instruments.
You mentioned realism... that is exactly what I am looking for. While I listen to literally every genre I prefer my classical and jazz to sound life-like, but it amazes me how "poor" the HF sounds in most IEMs. And by poor I mean that to my ears, the real-world HF sparkle is generally lacking. Call me crazy but the last time I looked, instruments are not sound mixed in real life (i.e. live, not mic'd); cymbals sparkle without sibilance, and I never feel like there are missing frequencies! Real is real, not subjective.
Using Crinacle's U12T response graph as a benchmark, there do not appear to be many that equal its HF response in the highest octaves, hence I need to test all possible options as this is a large investment that I do not plan to make again until they fail.
I am focusing on HF here because it is relatively easy to find examples with all the other frequencies and the right "textures", but highs that are lacking stand out more to me than lows or mids, which I can live with as a long-time ER4P user... It probably does not help that I have already resolved this with speakers and partially with headphones, but I can recognise "correct" sound quite quickly when I hear it.
As for price I am more than happy to spend as little as possible, but if there are audible improvements for me, then that dictates my budget. CIEM would be nice for isolation though as my ER4P has custom ear molds which are amazing.
Going back to my original question, making a list of other people's reference points for HF response allows me to judge the rest for myself, but most importantly it helps me narrow down a shortlist to focus on.