@OldRoadToad
I don't know your wifes hobbies or interests, but you gotta find a way to sell her on a trip for something she likes, and include an "oh by the way...."
After we do this & this, eat here, explore there, we are staying here & on this night I want to head over here for 2-3 hours to meet up with some like minded idiots/schiitiots/compadres and hang out for awhile....The next day we can do this, this, or this....
Sell it bud!
Back when RMAF was a thing I had my wife sold on a trip in fall 2020 to RMAF (F covid). Basically we take a trip to colorado, spend a few days seeing the sights together, I was due to get a day or two at RMAf while she got spa time or giggolo time, whatever it took....
It didnt work out, and RMAF is sadly dead, but the premise was solid....
As an aside.... My wife and I have been talking about a trip to Nashville for awhile.... I would suggest the next Schiitmeet take place in the Nashville area instead of Florida. Nashville is within driving distance for many people and flights are also relatively cheap and accessible.... Plus theres lots of cool stuff to do in the area....