Dusty Chalk
Head-Fi-holic: With headphones would just be a benny.
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Rick -- OMG! Takes a big man to admit something like that...
Flasken -- I had a relationship which sounds a lot like yours. I don't think it was just a matter of she was "playing" me, in my case. I think there was a distinct desire not to be the way she was, but she just couldn't help it. I ended up losing to the other guy because...well, honestly, I don't know, but I conjecture that it was because he was just plain more demanding of her time than I was. I was always like super polite and self-deprecating and "...if you don't have anything better to do..." kind of thing, and maybe that just doesn't work with everyone. I decided that I didn't want to change into something I'm not just to try to "win" her, so I gave up and moved on.
Flasken -- I had a relationship which sounds a lot like yours. I don't think it was just a matter of she was "playing" me, in my case. I think there was a distinct desire not to be the way she was, but she just couldn't help it. I ended up losing to the other guy because...well, honestly, I don't know, but I conjecture that it was because he was just plain more demanding of her time than I was. I was always like super polite and self-deprecating and "...if you don't have anything better to do..." kind of thing, and maybe that just doesn't work with everyone. I decided that I didn't want to change into something I'm not just to try to "win" her, so I gave up and moved on.