Patrick...
I see we are mostly on the same page, just a different way of expression. Me I strive for lack of coloration (I know not possible)
I am a firm believer that cables are the last component in your system. To me, once you have found the main components...ie source, amplification, transducer, then it is time for cables. A cable can not make a cheap component better, all it can do it transmit the signal as cleanly (-without coloration if you will-) as possible between two components. Once the recording playback has been degraded it can not be made better...ie crap in crap out.
I am also from the camp the cables do make a difference (to my ears), so far though I have found that interconnects have been the biggest bang for the buck, followed by tonearm cable, speaker cable, dedicated lines with upgraded recpticles, and then power cable. I must admit that I am just now starting to really play with PC's, so maybe I have not found that special one yet.
Have you tried dedicated lines?
As for Neutral...I use live UN-AMPLIFIED music as my reference (best is open air), what could be better, or more real?