Unfortunately buffers do not have standardized pinouts like op-amps do. So, the only chips that will plug directly into the META42 boards are the EL2001 and EL2002s. There are several other buffers on the market, but you will have to build adapters to make them work in the board.
As for sources, I don't think any of the big distributors are accepting small orders right now, because these chips are due to be discontinued in 2 weeks. I know my source requires minimum orders of 150, and only on a no-returns basis. I'm told that you can't get samples from Elantec, either. So, the only source for these chips now on a onesy-twosy basis are the small sellers who still have stock.