Don't make it harder for you and her as well. If you love each other, just do it, IMO. All this BS about been to young an stuff. Be scared of been to OLD for something like kids and do not have enough time with your love. It is natural when people married when they are young, more natural than some just wait and wait and wait... Finally you wake up and what you have:
1. Your house
2. Your car
3. Your dog /cat
4. Your all material stuff
That's what you will not have:
1. Happiness, because of emptiness and:
a. No kids
b. No kids
c. No kids
Life is to short, so be prepare to fight for every minute of it. You don't feel it, but it will get you so unexpected and hard that all your worries now will be looking like a joke.
Other than that, if you love YOURSELF ONLY, DO NOT DO IT and be happy like you are now.
One thing I would do, before any kids around, go travel and see more of the world if you can. The rest is just material BS, IMO.
Good luck
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Well, me and the girl have been going out for about 5 years. She's outta college and in the real world (as of next week), and i have (hopefully) another year to go.
the inevitable was going to happen. the marriage question.
"when are we gonna get married? 5 years maybe?"
I said yes, and i still say yes. I love this girl, and can honestly say i probably, no will marry her. I just scared outta my mind about it. It's been nagging at me for a while. A very long time.
Why?
well, I see all these old couples who absolutely HATE each other and being in each other's company. I don't want that to happen to us at all.
Also, I don't want the love to just vanish. Like okay we're married, so we don't have to do anything special for each other. We're stuck together, and we might as well just live it out.
this prospect seriously scares the **** outta me. Am I crazy? Is this normal?
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