mvvRAZ
Headphoneus Supremus
Aw thanks dude!Excuse me for just jumping in here, but I recently got into iems, and there is no better a person than mvvRaz to get advice from. He has had more TOTL iems and cables than most and has great ears. I got a lot of great info from mvvRaz, and he has never steered me wrong. I trust his ears and advice completely, and if he recommends an iem, it is worth looking into.
Yeah impressions tend to vary a fair bit from person to person, I think you and I hear things quite similarly, so my recommendations can be useful to you

All in all though the used market is probably the best place to start - I made the mistake myself to buy everything new for my first few months in the hobby and ended up losing a fair bit of money on some IEMs that I could've gotten in mint condition on Head-Fi