Yeah just give those glasses some time. Even though you're no stranger to wearing them, if your head isn't acustomed to them because you've been wearing your contacts all the time (which is NOT good for your eyes, btw), then they might feel a little uncomfortable at first.
Also, if you're glasses are old, chances are they may need an adjustment. Time will do strange things to a frame, and just from everyday wear, they may eventually go out of the best fitting shape for your mellon. Nosepads, temples, etc. need to be adjusted, screws need to be tightened. If you go into your eyeglass store and ask for an adjustment, you just might be surprised how much better they fit and feel. Then try them again with your 'phones and see if they feel any better.
As for your contact lenses, wearing torics is always tough since the lenses are weighted and need to be just right in order to see clearly. But you already knew that. Whether or not you need torics is up to your eye doctor, or optician, but they don't make a decision unless you give them input. They always ask YOU if it is better or worse, right?. If you think that while wearing normal contact lenses that you could see good enough, and you don't feel the need to use torics, then maybe you should talk to your contact lens fitter (doctor or optician) about it. Nobody can tell you what looks clear to YOU. Just like nobody can tell you what sounds better to YOU. Just keep in mind however, that if you have an astigmatism, regular lenses will never be as clear as torics. Sorry, but your eyes are shaped like footballs...
If you feel like you're getting had, you might be right. If you bought your lenses from your doctor's own store, he/she is probably trying to push you to buy stuff that you may not necessarily need. Doctors that have their own eyeglass/contact lens stores make a KILLING. If that's the case, and you suspect your doctor of taking advantage of your wallet (and your precious headphone money), then take your business elsewhere.
With that said, from the sounds of it, you didn't injure your eye too badly, but you're simply out of contacts at the moment. Am I right? Definitely get your glasses adjusted for the hell of it, and (depending on how old your glasses are) maybe consider getting a new pair that feel more comfortable to you.
Sorry to rant slightly off-topic!