okay! Well thanks all for recommendations, advice, etc.. but turns out I didn't even buy bookshelves
I got a pair of Totem Arro! Paid 1200$CDN/884$USD for them
They're almost a compromise between a floorstanding and bookshelf since they're pretty small yet...
I wanted to wait until I had time to play with them before posting, but redoing the room they're going in is taking more time than planned and the speakers have been in their box for almost a week so I'll just post now
So basically, out of ALL the bookshelfs speakers I've heard, the paradigm was cheap and very good sounding. B&W also had nice contestants and so did wharfedale. But the totem Rokks just sounded amazing and could be had for not too much more (Rokks > mites and cheaper too since they're discontinued). Monitor Audio S2 sounded pretty good also!
the price difference for bookshelf+stand wasn't THAT much from floorstanding.. Also, bookshelves had a bit of lack of lower end, also they don't look as serious as floorstanding, I had extra $ lying around, so I just decided to go floorstanding.
In floorstanding, I really liked the Monitor Audio S6 and Totem Arro. Both were similarly priced (totem a bit cheaper) and they both 'stood out' from the others. Both were more expensive than most floorstanding though: PSB, Dahlquist, Energy, Paradigm, etc.. BUT, I found that what I was looking for was closer with those 2.
The arros are special... ULTRA slim, slick, small, yet, they sound HUGE and highly detailed! My first reaction when hearing them: "Ok... which speakers are playing? Those big ones? no?! THOSE SMALL ONES?!!? "
Hehehe, they're very special
Mentions of other speakers in misc categories:
KEFS: Q1 & Q3. Someone said warm? ... *
WARM*! They weren't my cup of tea
I much prefered the sound of the Q5! More detailed, much, much better IMHO. Q1&3 were just too warm.. The rest wasn't really impressive either. I heard the Q5 right after though, and it was a huge improvement, warm but not overly, much better highs and mids! Someone else was listening to them, constantly yabbering (talking) with the 2nd salesman while I was trying to listen to them... "oh now they make small speakers that are soo good like when I was blah blah balh" I wanted to scream STU AND LISTN FOO but didn't... Also the dumby bought the Q3's which IMHO were worst than the Q1 because they had even *more* bass than the already bassy Q1.... (can you tell I'm not very fond of the overly bassy sound
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Boston: Salesman: "drivers are made of ?rubber? and will basically last forever". Oh thats good! Listen to the speakers... UH?!??! What?! Know when u go out of a plane and your ears are messed up because of the pressure? Like how that sounds? If so, get boston! IMHO, they sounded HORRIBLE! They win the 'worst speakers I've heard' prize!
Paradigm ?Studio 100?: Floorstanding. Normally 1600$+ cdn from what the salesman told me, new one came out, offer floor demo 1100$. Listened to them quite a bit.. They sounded kinda weird.. something wrong but I couldn't quite put my fingers on what exactly.. I think it was too much base and annoying tweeters.. Right after I tried S6, and WHAM, thats what a speaker should sound like! Discarded the paradigms right away. The paradigms could be played much louder IMHO.. But that wasn't what I was looking for...
Titus Triange floorstanding: Very warm no? Also more highs if I'm not mistaking.. 1500$CDN
Magnepan: WEIRD!!! Wasn't sure whether I liked them or not... just... strange...
Also PG Lam or something like that wasn't too bad, but more expensive than the Monitor audio S6 and Totem Arro
Anyway, can't wait to plug the speakers