I take that as "it's up to you decide"
I just don't trust my ears enough to tell the real difference without proper blind test so I try to rely on specifications which can be measuer or calculatred.
Exactly ! I tend to be perfectionist when it comes to such details, so using the best possible solution (from technical point of view) is a must. Since all capacitors have specific influence on sound (more or less), using the most neutral solution available is only option for me. Some people have specific preferences considering sound signature and accordingly use parts that enhance those, but i prefer "clean" approach.