The Roederstein (Vishay) MKT's seem to be the most detailed and fastest on the Bantam, but the Elna RFS Silmic II's are awfully good and probably have more bass.
As for which is better, I've stated this before - I kind of disagree with having questions such as this in the DIY thread. The DIY designers in our community all seem to find a niche without having a direct competition between designs. This is purposeful, because none of us actively supporting DIY are big guns when it comes to business and investment dollars. It's enough that we can develop the infrastructure to support these designs and offer them to the community at reasonable prices, without putting ourselves in head-to-head competition about who's best, etc.
I think you'll find that the niches in DIY are set in a way that performance is proportional to cost, while each design offers some unique features that distinguish it from other DIY designs. The Bantam, for instance, is probably the smallest available rendition of the PCM2702 DAC topology. It improves on the original Alien DAC by offering a much smaller planform, updated and easier-to-obtain regulators, and offers more options on the output coupling cap selections.
The GrubDAC, in the meantime, is brand new, and is also unique in offering a DAC of the same size as the Bantam without any output coupling capacitors at all. It's definitely unique in that quality so far (for a voltage-output DAC). Meanwhile, it's designer, cobaltmute, went even further in the planform design. It's specifically shaped to not only fit in the same spaces as a Bantam, but it takes full advantage of the built-in mounting features of the translucent Hammond 1551HTBU case - complete with mounting notches, etc.
EDIT: Of course, others are free to express their opinions and have apparently done so in an adjacent thread.