I understand that he sees me as a challenger and feels he has to try to cut my legs off to build himself up.
And that’s the problem, what you “understand that I see” is wrong. In fact, it’s utterly BIZARRE that you could form any sort of understanding of “what I see” if your assertion: “
I'm not reading anything he says.” were true!
What I actually see is a bunch of assertions, some of which are correct, some are sort of correct/debatable and some are incorrect. So respectively, I agree, debate or refute them when I choose. If an assertion contradicts one of my assertions, then it’s of course far more likely I’ll respond (agree, debate or refute it).
Clearly, you’ve just made up what you “understand”, presumably to protect/build-up your own ego!
It has nothing to do with the forum or me. It's a personality quirk.
It has everything to do with the forum. Unfortunately, you often appear to believe your personal opinion/experiences define what’s relevant in this forum and/or what the science/facts are, which of course is completely contrary to Science and therefore unacceptable to this subforum. Now that’s a personality quirk!
Everyone has a right to have a voice and opinion. He shouldn’t be attacking every single thing you say. And you shouldn’t have to defend every single thing you say.
Everyone does of course have “
a right to voice an opinion” but also of course, this is the sound science forum. So if an opinion contradicts the facts/science then it’s absolutely fine to refute it and arguably it SHOULD be refuted! Then of course they do either have to defend their assertion/s, rationally, with evidence, or concede (overtly or tacitly) it was false.
You’re right of course that music is subjective, however, that doesn’t mean everything about music is entirely subjective, it’s based on certain objective facts/principles. If that were not the case then “Music Theory” would not and could not exist! We can of course have all sorts of varying valid opinions on how, where, when, to what effect and what we prefer/experience/feel towards the use of these principles/facts but we can’t simply change or contradict these principles/facts without following a somewhat scientific method/approach. Eg. We come up with a logical hypothesis that is accepted by consensus on the basis that it’s supported with (and doesn’t contradict existing facts/principles without) demonstrable and repeatable evidence/examples. This is why it’s called “Music Theory” and not just music conventions, ideas or opinions.
Unfortunately, bigshot simply made-up an assertion, that constrains “Form”, contradicts Music Theory and is disproved by various/numerous examples. His only supporting evidence so far has been his personal impression/interpretation of what others have said to him and the obviously false claim that his assertion is irrefutable except by a “truly great” musical artist. If someone asserts 1+1=3, you don’t need to be a “truly great” mathematician in order to refute it.
If our experience of the great musicians with whom we’ve worked/discussed music theory were the basis of who is correct, then it’s a fairly safe bet I have way more than bigshot. But of course, that would just be trying to refute a classic example of the “Appeal to Authority” fallacy with an equally fallacious appeal to more authority!
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