I got the jaybird set in after posting...sorry for the delay in posting my results.  I tried the jaybird apt-x transmitter with both the beats, and the jaybird headset.  both still have very noticeable latency.  What I ended up doing was getting a wireless gaming headset.  Turtle beach modern...

well, looks like I already have an aptx set.  I bought a beats wireless set at bestbuy, and they are by far the best sounding wireless headphones I've ever owned...a bit expensive, but worth it.  I started researching low latency when these had high latency with a bluetooth transmitter off ebay...

no latency information, however jaybird has a set that supports aptx, and has a transmitter... the pricing on this is a bit better, and I'm considering buying to check it out.   http://www.jaybirdgear.com/press/press-release-sb2.html