thank you for everyone's advice. you know it's weird, I noticed that the sibilance had improved.
I noted it during a few different segments of a a song I've recently been listening to on repeat for hours on end using my old set-up, so I can felt like I could really quickly tell sonic differences. Now only noticed silibance in 2 specific parts. Maybe my brain is getting used to the sound or whatever burn-in mumbojumbo, but yeaa. Now I understand why people believe in the burn-in or whatever. It's weird, with new equipment/headphones silibance is always the first thing I notice nowadays & first thing to improve after time lol.
This thread has been very interesting to follow, but I feel like the lyr 2 isn't ideal for tube rolling as you need to get a matched set which doubles the price, so I guess I'll probably stick with stock for now. it's a vast improvement over my old bravo v3, so I am satisfied for now. Would feel silly paying more than $50 for tubes and it sounds like all the good stuff is wayyy over that price range.
BTW: another question for you guys, is the lyr 2 supposed to run this hotttt? I can feel pretty intense heat on my volume pot after 30 minutes and my old bravo would only get hot around the heatsinks. Currently using high gain, volume pot around 11 o'clock for the 50ishohm HE-560s. lol sry if this is slightly off-topic from tubes :S but thanks for all your help!!!