Digitalbath3737
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I get tested for STDs at least every 6 months no matter what. This morning I get a call from my doctor telling that my results are in. My gf was there when I got the call. She asked me what the call was about, I told her the truth and she flipped out. We've been together for about a year, when we started going out we got tested together and both came up clean. So naturally she wanted to know why I felt the need to get tested. First she asked if I had been cheating and then she asked if I thought she was cheating. I answered a truthful no to both. My answer didn't make her feel any better.
I don't mess around with my health and if there is something wrong with me I want to know. I view getting tested the same way I view routine doctors visits. She views it differently. She feels like I don't trust her. Which isn't the case. Even though I would never think in a million years she'd cheat on me, the simple truth is that I have been wrong before. To me this is a realistic way of thinking.
So am I wrong? Is getting tested when your in a long term relationship rude and distrustful?
I don't mess around with my health and if there is something wrong with me I want to know. I view getting tested the same way I view routine doctors visits. She views it differently. She feels like I don't trust her. Which isn't the case. Even though I would never think in a million years she'd cheat on me, the simple truth is that I have been wrong before. To me this is a realistic way of thinking.
So am I wrong? Is getting tested when your in a long term relationship rude and distrustful?