What are you looking for? The 2000J will be less U-shaped than the Roxanne (at lowest bass setting), for example. It's not going to have as smooth a treble response as the ER4S (almost nothing will have that). But it does have TOTL-level performance, bar none. IMHO, the DN-2000J is best suited for low-volume listening, which is what I personally like doing. It maintains a lot of detail from top to bottom, even when I'm listening at 1% volume off my Concero HP.
With the huge range of tuning options, the FLC8 is certainly a nice option, though I suspect that it won't be that comfortable. Also, from Tyll's measurements, the impulse response isn't perfect, so I don't know how the bass response will be.
I have small ears too. The DN-2000J fits fine. I had trouble with long-term fit the first week I had it, but I realized it was chafing from the stabilizer fins, so I took them off, and they're now comfortable for hours on end. I only have a gripe with how to remove them. I tend to pull with the strain reliefs, and that's not a good thing, even if it does hold up long-term. Ergonomics and attention to detail for the K3003 are still superior, obviously.
The DN-2000J, functionally, is a completely different product from the DN-2000. Different dynamic driver with different impedance characteristics, and completely different crossover design.
They did want to rename it, but because they had the name 'DN-2000J' certified for Hi-Res Audio by the Japan Audio Society, they didn't want to spend the extra money and get it re-certified for a different name, only to not use the 2000J name at all.
I suspect the next model will be similar to the 2000J (similar technical enhancements), but with removable cables. That's what DUNU seem to be concentrating on these days for R&D. I'm assuming they'll call it the DN-3000. Who knows.
The FLC8 was surprisingly comfortable for me, though they do look a little odd, cute even. The DN2000J on the other hand is truly a thing of beauty. The main issue for me was that the filters facing the inside of my ears have a tendency to stick on to the skin and pop out of the iem. That one is really easily lost so take care to secure it. I've heard from LMUE that the newer batch will have more secure locks. The demo probably was really well used.