Do you want to step away from IEMs all together? If your ears are starting to be bothered by any inserted type of headphone, you might step to buds, and the Yuin PK1 and OK1 are of very high sound quality. I have the OK1, and when I first got my UM3X, my initial impressions were that the UM3X sounded a lot like a warm version of the OK1. The OK1 is however slightly bright, so the change is slightly more then just going from warm to neutral. You swing about the same far the other way. As well, the OK1 needs some wattage to maintain good low end presence. On low power it works fine, but it does brighten at volume because of the lack of power to drive the speaker. Wattage plays a sizable roll in the tonality of the OK1. The soundstage of the OK1 is awesome. It's more evenly presented then the UM3X.
The overall sound of the OK1 is the most lifelike I've heard. It's very believable and in some cases will actually trick you.
If there was one gripe about the OK1 though it would be that it can come across slightly harsh. The midrange and high end are decently pronounced, and on some songs, it can be a little overbearing. Coverings can improve this. For example, the stock, holed, rubber tip does cut down the highs a tiny bit. You could also purchase a foam covering and further attenuate the treble down again.
I'll note that the bass response is good on this bud, especially when supported by some wattage. It's slightly light relative to the mid and high end but it's energetic, well defined, and with good range.
The OK1 bud does kick some serious butt. It's the closest thing I've used so far compared with the UM3X.