Why do people get angry when.....
Aug 7, 2007 at 5:01 PM Post #5 of 55
I don't understand either - I think maybe Ken36 has it right.
 
Aug 7, 2007 at 5:07 PM Post #6 of 55
I am guessing that some feel insulted, as a result of thinking that they are being treated as a fool who is easily taken advantage of.

I can also imagine getting your PM box loaded with crazy-low offers can be frustrating, causing some to get angered.

There are many things in life which are upsetting for good reason, and IMO this is not one of them.
 
Aug 7, 2007 at 5:11 PM Post #7 of 55
Agree with NiceCans, but if you really don't want lowball offers, state a ballpark or minimum price so people have an idea what to expect.
Else it's like 2 shy lovers, both afraid to make the first move to get things going.
 
Aug 7, 2007 at 5:41 PM Post #8 of 55
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Originally Posted by tk3 /img/forum/go_quote.gif
Agree with NiceCans, but if you really don't want lowball offers, state a ballpark or minimum price so people have an idea what to expect.
Else it's like 2 shy lovers, both afraid to make the first move to get things going.



Trust me...people still try to lowball you even with a listed price. I have no problem when buyers try to negotiate, but it is pretty insulting when I have a reasonable asking price of $200 on an item, and someone messages me offering $100. First, it's insulting because I get the sense that they think I'm a schmuck. Second, it's a waste of my time because I'm not a schmuck. Third, I'm disappointed because I opened the message thinking I had a buyer.

Although I've been tempted to write back something nasty, I usually either write back with a polite response declining their offer or I don't respond at all, which I've been doing more and more recently. It's a bit rude, but I figure that they've already wasted my time with a ridiculous offer, and there is no need for me to waste any more of my time.
 
Aug 7, 2007 at 5:45 PM Post #9 of 55
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Originally Posted by TenaciousO /img/forum/go_quote.gif
Third, I'm disappointed because I opened the message thinking I had a buyer.


Ding ding ding ding! We have a winner!
 
Aug 7, 2007 at 5:55 PM Post #10 of 55
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Originally Posted by TenaciousO /img/forum/go_quote.gif
Trust me...people still try to lowball you even with a listed price. I have no problem when buyers try to negotiate, but it is pretty insulting when I have a reasonable asking price of $200 on an item, and someone messages me offering $100. First, it's insulting because I get the sense that they think I'm a schmuck. Second, it's a waste of my time because I'm not a schmuck. Third, I'm disappointed because I opened the message thinking I had a buyer.

Although I've been tempted to write back something nasty, I usually either write back with a polite response declining their offer or I don't respond at all, which I've been doing more and more recently. It's a bit rude, but I figure that they've already wasted my time with a ridiculous offer, and there is no need for me to waste any more of my time.




What he said.

Personally, I usually sell at a lower price to begin with, and still get ridiculous lowball offers. It's annoying to have to weed through such nonsense.
 
Aug 7, 2007 at 6:00 PM Post #11 of 55
Unless something is priced REALLY low, I typically offer a little bit less than an items listed price - for example, I'd offer $1850 on a $2000 item. However, I'd expect the seller to make a counter offer of something like $1925 and then I always always accept that.

I think that's reasonable and is generally considered standard in pretty much everywhere - both online and in person. Do people consider this lowballing? I simply consider it negotiating. If I wanted an inflexible price i'd buy new.

I would never offer $1500 for a $2000 item though - that's just disrespectful.
 
Aug 7, 2007 at 6:05 PM Post #12 of 55
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Originally Posted by Computerpro3 /img/forum/go_quote.gif
Unless something is priced REALLY low, I typically offer a little bit less than an items listed price - for example, I'd offer $1850 on a $2000 item. However, I'd expect the seller to make a counter offer of something like $1925 and then I always always accept that.

I think that's reasonable and is generally considered standard in pretty much everywhere - both online and in person. Do people consider this lowballing? I simply consider it negotiating. If I wanted an inflexible price i'd buy new.

I would never offer $1500 for a $2000 item though - that's just disrespectful.



I do the same as a buyer and seller. I make an offer and wait for a counter offer that I usually accept. However, when someone offers me $120 on $200 item, I find it to be disrespectful.
 
Aug 7, 2007 at 6:08 PM Post #13 of 55
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Originally Posted by Computerpro3 /img/forum/go_quote.gif
Unless something is priced REALLY low, I typically offer a little bit less than an items listed price - for example, I'd offer $1850 on a $2000 item. However, I'd expect the seller to make a counter offer of something like $1925 and then I always always accept that.

I think that's reasonable and is generally considered standard in pretty much everywhere - both online and in person. Do people consider this lowballing? I simply consider it negotiating. If I wanted an inflexible price i'd buy new.

I would never offer $1500 for a $2000 item though - that's just disrespectful.



I find you are among the minority. When I was selling my w100 (which sold for $450 IIRC) I got an offer in the range of $150 when I was asking $450.
 
Aug 7, 2007 at 6:12 PM Post #14 of 55
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Originally Posted by jbloudg20 /img/forum/go_quote.gif
I find you are among the minority. When I was selling my w100 (which sold for $450 IIRC) I got an offer in the range of $150 when I was asking $450.


That's ridiculous. Always feels vindicating when it sells for full price after getting lowballed.

Off topic, but you go to Uconn? I live 30 minutes from there! We probably know a bunch of the same people. Are you from CT originally?
 

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