I've been trying to figure out the same question. I was looking at the Toshiba SD5700, supports DVD, DVD-A, CD, MP3, has a toslink out. Lists at 399$, but sells for much less. However, I'm far from decided on anything. If you find anything that fits the bill, post about it, because it might fit my needs too.
Also, I feel compelled to note my amusement at nebuchadnezzar's post. EVERY SINGLE TIME I post, or see a post that says something like, "I'm looking for a pretty good <blank>, my budget is <blank>." There is at least one post where someone is like, "Well, if you are willing to go 300$ over your budget, this is a great <blank>." Its so suggestive! No wonder everyone says "Welcome to head-fi, sorry about your wallet." There are all these people suggesting that you spend more. You can't post anything without someone trying to convince you to go over your budget. I just think its funny.
peace,
phidauex