I have a VPI Aries Scout.
Although it requires a bit too much tweaking for my liking, it sounds great once it is set up.
As for cartridges and phono stages - much like headphones, they are a matter of personal choice. You may have to buy a few before you are satisfied. The Scout can do justice to a wide range of cartridges. I have used mine with the Benz woods and Dynavector 20XH. Some are perfectly satisfied with the Dynavector 10 series, some like the 17D2, and a few even use the XX-2. Another cartridge that reportedly does well with the Scout is the Sumiko Blackbird.
For phono stages, I have a Trigon Vanguard II in right now, and it is a great one if you like a lot of adjustments. Impossible to find used though, so if you go that way, keep an eye out for the Rogue Audio Stealth and Monolithic Sound PS-1 or PS-2.