My tests show that the only parameter that affects the signal propagation in IEM cables is the resistance (not capacitance or inductance and definitely not copper vs sliver at least in the range from 10 Hz to ca 30 kHz).
Cables do matter by
1. Resistance, so changing from thin/poor stock cables may be noticeable. The lower cable resistance are simpler for less effects, but since cables effectively function as an impedance adapter - there can be preferred cables (the difference is very subtle to my ears though, and again low-resistance cables are the easier way to go ).
2. Comfort for the fit - that is most important for me, a good flexible cable is comfortable and enables best fit for a good comfortable seal.
3. Aesthetics, colour matching - the psychoacoustics should not be underestimated. I can easily covince myself that my blue cables are the best since electrons like blue, and they must feel most welcome to propagate smoothly and most musically in these cables
Very briefly for the Apple dongle, it was designed fir the impedance of ca. 43 Ohm, so it works the best with IEMs from 30 to 60-100 Ohm. The upper range is governed by the IEM sensitivity and desired loudness levels. The lower limits are a more complex story.