I think there's much discussion here and if you do a search within the thread, you will find the answer you seek. But, no, there's no compiled list.
Anyway, for the HE500, I would recommend the BW. Though I use it myself with the Copper Venom as well. For the HE1000, I like it very much with the SW22.
I agree with kiats...i had the he500 and used both copper venom and bw both 8wire versions..it gives more punch then the 4wire versions