Update on my situation with
@dpeterfy32 and his theft. Head Fi is assisting and I have made claims with PayPal and my credit card company. Also, Eric of Eletech read these posts and in his normal, Eric way, reached out to me with sadness that this occurred over one of his products. I am so overcome by my own flood of emotions, from feeling scammed to feeling so supported, that the overall sensation is truly happiness and hopefulness.
I maintain that my loss is my own fault and doing, and I am hopeful for a good resolution, but have no expectations.
The same could be said for the reaction of the entire community; it has been so supportive (despite this being my fault) and I couldn't be more humbled and touched

! I do not ask for or want hand outs, I just want my bad experience to 1) get fairly resolved, and 2) serve as a warning that the brotherhood most of us revere and share here does not mean you should use PP F&F with someone you've not had enough personal interactions with to qualify as "friends and family". That said, I am again humbled and touched to know that so many of you have become exactly that, and I will not let this bad experience taint that!!
I have decided that one bad apple will not, and cannot, shake my love for music or this hobby, or my faith in this amazing community!! I may be done with Friends and Family payments if we've not established a personal relationship, but I am far from done with our hobby and this community! My trust was shaken, but it is not broken

!! Love you all!