1)
the bias supply on all my desktop headphone amplifiers is a voltage doubler from the + regulated supply which makes 700v-800v. don't care what the voltage is because it is followed by a 10m90s and a 580v string of 1% zener diodes. then 2 stage filter. this produces a regulated 580v +/- 5v that is not adjustable. over time and temperature and long term the measurements drift less than 1%
the 600v of the uhv power is too low to do the 10m90s, but 2 resistors bring it down to 580v easily and sure looks to be extremely stable, less than 1%
(have it on a long term measuring rig right now)
you could use the emco module and set it for about 700v and then do the same thing with the ixys and zener diodes.
the one problem i know of for sure is that as the bias current changes mainly due to humidity, the emco module output voltage will drift even with a fixed input voltage.
alternatively you can wrap the emco module in a fully regulated differential discrete amplifier similar to the grhv.
2) personal opinion is that the stax headphones will not be damaged with 600v as long as you use the 5Meg resistor
3) correctly measuring the bias voltage is easy with any standard 10M input resistance dvm. just have to do it before the 5Meg resistor.
(or get one of the 1Gohm input impedance voltmeters, which is much more expensive)
(new versions of these are hard to find, have to go vintage vtvm)
If the headphones are new, the inital charging current is 50 micro amps which drops very quickly to under 10 microamps (5 minutes)
using 1gohm input impedance voltmeter measuring voltage accross the 5M resistor. i have seen really trashed headphones continuously draw over 100 microamps which does not decrease with time.
doing a fully regulated everything with feedback directly after the 5M resistor is probably a bad idea because it will try to force the headphones to charge faster.
doing a quad esl63 charging circuit which includes a neon light in series with a 47k resistor across the 5M might be a way to charge headphones safely and much quicker.
since it works reliably for 20+ years on my quads, it must work.