I went for the Wing.
The Curve's keyboard was too hard to use, and i couldnt see the letters and symbols etc. because of how small they were, and i could see it becomming a problem for me. The Wings light-up keyboard is great really. So far the phone is just what i want. The included earbuds plug into a small mini-usb type connector. It doesnt have a regular 1/8" jack, which i find to be stupid, but it doesnt sound bad for an add-on feature, just to have something to listen to in case i dont bring my other music players along.
The volume should have more power though. It doesnt really go loud phone-call wise, or music wise. If its noisey and someones talking low, i put it on speaker and lower the volume a bit and hold it on my ear like its the regular ear-speaker, and it works out fine.
The messaging is exactly what i wanted.
I also have battery packs that will charge the phone a number of times while im not home, for days of talk time and internet time.
So, anyway, im happy with my purchase.
Every phone has pluses and minuses, and this one works for me.
I also looked at the sidekick phones, and they didnt compare to either the curve or the wing. Someone at work also showed me her Treo. I didnt want to throw more confusion in my head...lol.
Anyway, thanks for all your input!!!
I just realized the earbuds play in BOTH ears for phone calls!!! I love that, cuz sometimes i have problems discerning what people say through only one ear. Pretty cool!