I had to solder some surface mount parts, including 50-mil chips, for work last week. Small solder is crucial for chips. Small soldering iron tips are also very nice - especially asymetrical ones that have a tip over to one side. All kinds of surfaces to use.
Tin at least one pad before you put the part on the board. With resistors, put a mound of solder on one pad, put the piece in position, reheat the solder, and use a toothpick to keep it in place. With surface mount chips, tin two corner pads, then reheat one at a time as you press the chip down. Even with one or two pins down, with small legs, you can still move the chip where you want. To check the chip afterwards: test all adjacent pins for continuity (solder bridges), then each pin to the next part it connects to.
And if you have surface mount transistors or LEDs...good luck. The toothpick works wonders because even a tiny magnetic field on a pair of needlenose pliers can pull a 1206 resistor out of place if it's not soldered down.