Thank you!
There's been quite a bit of reading down a rabbit hole since you posted this and a lot more research still to do.
I found the 10 band table this is from. I didn't like the recommended pre-amp gain adjustment and, as you pointed out, the bass in bands 1 and 2, but I've created a preset in iTunes for the rest of it.
Early days yet but... big improvement.
At the start of Foo Fighters My Hero there is actually some attack on the drums rather than it sounding like he's just slapping jelly.
Howlin' Wolf's voice on Smokestack Lightnin' actually has some bite to it.
Metallica's The Shortest Straw on ...And Justice For All - The drums... WOW. Finally some life! A much more realistic attacking edge.
I could go on but I think some version of this adjustment will have to factor into anything going forward.
Very interesting. As an ex audiophile purist, this would have once been anathema to me.
I only use EQ sparingly with some gear and some IEM because it isn't convenient with the gear I use but if you have a set up that allows it readily it can work wonders.
Glad to hear it is working out for you. It is very disappointing to not like new gear.
I am sure over time you will progress and refine your set up but it sounds like you have made some really good progress in a matter of hours.
First time I was put onto to EQ a chap recommended setting for a very wonky sounding IEM that I had at that time and it was like listening to an entirely different set of IEM. That one involved several areas with boosts and reductions in the realm of 12 db if I recall. It was unlistenable without EQ !