Haha, yes, I agree this is a thing. It's not limited to justifying expensive purchases, though. In general, there's a pressure to conform and to not be the odd one out.
True. I should also add that in all my experience with this hobby, from 15 dollar iems up to 2000 dollar iems, I have encountered very very very few that I truly thought were "bad" by any objective standard.
So experience has told me that things like technicalities are often significantly less important than reading the general consensus on this forum would lead people to believe. Tonality/tuning are what I have experienced as the most important of we are going back enjoyment as the metric here. And because of how subjective that is, it makes it a lot easier to understand how some can enjoy iems that others think are terrible.
I've also seen one of your comments where you were wondering about whether some people are exaggerating or just making things up.
I do think there's a ton of hyperbole thrown around in this hobby. Some of it by necessity. Trying to describe audio in words is difficult especially when it comes to some of the more nebulous concepts we all try to describe about sound. Things that are hard enough to perceive on their own, but otherwise describing tiny nuances without exaggeration would likely be difficult or impossible. So I don't necessarily mind that part as much, it's just that you get situations where it becomes hard to truly judge how "good" something is because the exaggeration might make it sound miles and miles ahead when in reality differences are likely much smaller.
On making things up... Well I don't think people are necessarily lying. But there are things that I have either never experienced myself or have a hard time believing, so I do think there is some level of self convincing going on. But again, it could just be that there are nuances I either don't pick up... Or quite possibly, that they are just not important to me, especially again when determining enjoyment, and more importantly, value or worth.
There's probably plenty of people out there with hearing like yours. And if you really want to get better at hearing this stuff, you likely can train your ears to better pick up nuance.
Yea, whether is a genuine inability to hear the nuance or just not registering some of it due to it not really affecting my enjoyment, it's actually not a huge deal to me. It does make it a little hard to participate here sometimes, and can be a turn off (I'm kinda of on the verge of being ready to cash out of this hobby so to speak). But overall, enjoyment has always been my number 1 goal, and some of that nuance just really isn't important to me personally. No real desire either to train myself to hear it. And I think for my sanity and wallet, that's probably for the best.
I do enjoy my higher end stuff that I have, but a lot of that really comes down to feeling, and my personal rationalization is that I'm paying more for stuff that has been tuned well or interestingly by companies who have that expertise.
Anyways, probably enough said from me on these topics. Thanks for the discussion. Everyone else please continue your normal programming, and precog I'll be looking forward to whatever you review next.