I did some new test on my balanced TH-900... Still not believed my ears, I had to use my DMM to verify if my balanced to SE adapter had something wrong... and cannot find any problem, It's working...
The adapter use highest grade Neutrik XLR4 and Amphenol 1/4 jack, and forza audioworks OCC copper (the same than my recabled th900).
On my TH-900, the gap/difference in term of soundstage is so HUGE between the SE and the BAL that I still cannot believe it.
If I was relying on the SE output, I would just not have kept the Pioneer.
If you like very frontal "in your face" soundstaging, you may not like the balanced output though. there a lot of space in the balanced output that is not present on my SE output in my tests.
Imho, for my very own taste, going balanced with the th900 on the Pioneer isn't an option, it's mandatory.