So here, as announced, is my "solution" now.
First picture is the unmodded situation (only with new pads). the pads kept slipping down so i had to readjust them every 15 mins or so. really annoying.
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Second pic is what i used to counter this unbearable situation.
Top right is some leftover fabric used for making masks during the beginning of covid-pandemic.
below is some cusion i scavenged from the Sundara package to reinforce the headstrap.
At bottom of the pic is what i surprisingly found to solve the pad-slipping. Those are replacement shoelaces that were lazily lying around (of course unused).
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Next is the laces that fit ridiculously well onto the groove. It's like they were made for that specific purpose
And it doesnt even look silly, in fact i kinda like the contrast it gives. They neither slip inside nor do they fall off. Amazing.
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Last pic is after i "installed" the padding + fabric onto the headstrap which gives it some more stability from the top while also releasing a bit of clampforce as a result. This is still workinprogress, e.g. getting rid of the excessive bands holding the padding..
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So yea, im pretty content with the results.
the headphones now sit really comfortable, i dont have to adjust anything. i even went to the supermarket yesterday and everything stayed in place.