I actually hung it up last year after about ten years of fooling around with it. Took lessons a couple times to get me out of slumps. I'm actually a decent rhythm player, but never could get the modes into my head well enough to hit an intermediate level at playing lead.
Anyway, if electric is what you want to pursue, then my suggestion would be to get a Std. Telecaster. (Not the "American Std.", just the Standard) Not the cheapest starter, but you IMHO you can't beat Fender's entry models for bang-for-the-buck, and you can't beat the Telecaster for a beginner electric. It's simple, easy to upgrade, and can work in just about any genre. Unlike most cheap starter electrics, you'll be happy to keep that Tele in your collection forever, even after you buy something nicer later on.
DON'T buy something with a 'whammy bar' (i.e. tremelo) for your first guitar.
Get a small 'modeling' practice amp such as a Vox DA5, Roland Micro-Cube, or Fender G-Dec Junior. These have decent effects and amp sounds built-in so you can practice with a clean sound or mess around with effects and different amp sounds. I believe they all have headphone-out too, which is a must-have if there are others under your roof.
Get a good electic tuner, too. A Korg CA-40 will do.
justinguitar.com is a good online site for beginner lessons.