Well,
it took some time, but Lucid Audio did right by me in the end: I've got a new ER4SR! (Lucid Audio even found someone I could send my defective ER4SR to locally,
and didn't require that I send back the whole box, so shipping was cheap.) My thanks go to Gary and Ann (in Taiwan) and Jeff LaRico (director of sales for Lucid Audio).
After
much,
much,
much,
much tip rolling, I returned to my old favorite: the EarFills (L) from Future Sonics. I shortened the stem, though.
BEWARE: Shortening the stem isn't easy, due to how flexible the material is. I tried using a cut Q-tip inside the stem and a cutter to cut the stem around the Q-tip, but didn't get very good results. In the end I just used a pair of very good scissors and trimmed little bit by litte bit until both IEM mouths were at the same distance of their respective eartip mouths.