By the way I'm not really that religious. And I'm not smart enough to know about the insides of amps or whatever...but I guess you're saying I screw my audio equipment like a b***ard or something, huh!
Go for the neck. Well, I mean right behind the ear. No, do not bite her. You are not a vampire; unless you are, then she will be under your power forever. I you kiss her gently on the neck behind the ear, she will melt
Originally Posted by technobarbie As a female I find this enlightening, especially the answers.
Know this. Guys are analytical and women are emotional. Girls don’t care about the details; they care about the “feeling” of the moment and how you touch them – i.e. intimacy. A girl is watching your hands more than she’s feeling the kiss. When you kiss a girl you’re signaling a transition. The hands tell her what that transition is. If that transition doesn’t match the mood you’re toast.
Now, without wanting to be a jerk, I want to offer some caution here. Barb seems like a great person and I think she is being pretty representative of what women would say BUT - be careful!
There's a certain code being used here you have to understand. When a woman says she isn't concerned about your technique, she just cares about how it feels, you need to know this: YOUR TECHNIQUE IS WHAT ALLOWS HER TO NOT HAVE TO THINK ABOUT YOUR TECHNIQUE.
Its not unlike high end headphones that "get out of the way" of the music. It's neither cheap nor easy for your headphones to accomplish that task, even though it sounds so simple.
I'm not wanting to be overly cynical (or sexist) here, but a lot of times a mans job is to be worrying about doing things right so she feels like its all flowing freely and easily.
Originally Posted by squallor Of course, it's no guarantee. But:
a) it decreases the chances of infection
b) don't go for obviously high risk women
c) first go down on her, a number of STDs have visible symptoms
d) if you're paranoid, you can always get both of you tested first