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Originally Posted by 3lusiv3
...there's no need to get so emotional that you want to use the ignore list.
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That is when the ignore feature comes in handy. We all push each other's buttons. When two strong willed people, who are both adament about their respective positions, cannot come to an understanding, each is bound to get emotionally attached. It could be politics, religion, sex, the HD600, an amp, double blind tests, ICs, technical knowledge of the operations of an IC chip, 12AX7 tubes, vynil vs. CD vs DVD-A vs DVD-SA, whatever. For whatever reason people become emotionally attached.
Imagine a situation where you post something. Someone then calls you a "moron" or a "twit". What to do? When it happened to me at another site I just put the person on my ignore list and said so in the thread. I didn't want to argue with him least he then turn around and call me a "jerk". Certain people take delight in riling other people, they delight in personal attacks and they get pleasure out of contention. This person usually needs to let off steam and is itching for a fight. But all he really does is to make someone else miserable. He has gotten rid of his stress and transferred it to someone else. That person may then transferr it to someone else in the community, and they in turn transfer it to someone else. It's a sickness and it should not be tolerated.
Some can point to the TIO section as a possible source of contention amongst the community members. Perhaps they like staying at this one site all the time and so will get bored answering "the same old questions". They may need mental stimulation which a good discussion can provide. So they may turn to TIO. Who knows. I do know that the TIO section here is more stimulating than other tech sites I have ventured onto. Besides, you know that if you stick in any of the other threads you're bound to spend money.
Me, I'm on at least three other forums at the same time as I visit Head-Fi from time to time. I would rather not visit sites like TechIMO and then come in here looking for a fight. That is un-mature behaviour. But it is something which we must all outgrow; it happens all the time.