All good questions and points. Last first - FOOBAR has a level trim that automatically reduces the overall level by the maximum boost in any of the 31 frequencies being altered, so no clipping. At your risk, you can play with that level of cut, which I do, but I keep it so the peak levels are at least -1 or -2 dB from clipping.
I don't listen to EDM, so the most happening below 60 Hz is mostly ambient sonic cues. The first curve came from taking the Inner Fidelity non-adjusted frequency response curve, overlaying the Harmon "Ideal response" curve, and adjusting each frequency so the 400i curve "matches" the Harmon curve exactly. You're right - some frequencies won't just play ball due to resonances and other technical issues, but I guess that I should have stated that this was a theoretical curve. The fact is, I tend toward the second simplified curve anyway, which means that the "theoretical" curve is lacking in some way.
The second curve reflects the fact that, at least with my rig, the upper frequencies sound quite balanced to my ear. I purposefully scallop out the higher bass frequencies to accent fundamentals - and if a recording is rich with those, then the levels under 100 Hz get reduced. Season to taste.
Thanks for giving me the excuse to flesh out my original post with what I should have said originally!
MG-bert