I just brought home a pair of 497s from Circuit City. Either someone had previously stretched them out and returned them, or I'm just a freak, but they fit perfectly on my head right out of the box! I don't forget I'm wearing them or anything, but they don't press any harder than my V6s.
So for a few lucky heads out there, there IS hope!
By the way, I like these phones. They have a broader soundstage than V6 -- the sound seems centered slightly in front of me, as opposed to simply sitting in my right and left ears. A little less detail, but more warmth and kinder to vocals, old/noisy recordings, etc. Right now the sound is a little mids-oriented, but I imagine with a break-in period the top and bottom will work their way to the surface, yes? Still, they sound pretty darn good right out of the box, even if I do have to crank my volume a tad higher than I do with V6 (probably perceived brightness is a factor there too.)