Best in ear headphones that has a big soundstage and can reveal depth, height and direction accurately. (HRTF)

[Wolfpaka]

So I play on a pretty high level in Counter Strike, and recently Valve introduced HRTF support into the game. I previously played with the Sennheiser PC363D headset, but frankly i find it too uncomfortable with glasses. So currently i play with some crappy earbuds and the difference in useful information through audio is just disheartening... Headphones/headset is out the question.
 
 
So i need what i couldn't find.
 
*I need a pair of earbuds with a wire that doens't go over my ear. (uncomfortable with my glasses)
 
*Has a good neutral sound.
 
*Has a an atleast decent soundstage that can reveal depth, height and direction accurately.