Balanced response with speakers is ENTIRELY DIFFERENT than with headphones. The relationship of the response of speakers to a balanced playback bears no relation to the way the Harman Curve relates to headphones. Speakers have completely different variables, and completely different ways of dealing with them.
I'm sorry, but the vast weight of the evidence, both anecdotal and scientific, is against you on these points. Imo.
@ADUHF: Headphones skip a part of your HRTF, loudspeakers don't, and sounds in the real world coming from a distance don't. That's why there exists no objective neutral for headphones, but objective neutral for loudspeakers does exist (although the latter depends on the room as well as the loudspeaker).
Don't confuse Harman's reasearch on loudspeakers with the Harman curve for headphones. Of course there is a relationships between the two.
I just now read this sentence that seems to describe that relationship: "The Harman headphone curve is the response of a flat loudspeaker (Salon2 IIRC) in a moderately reflective room (intended to be a representation of domestic listening), measured by a calibrated head-and-torso simulator that acts as a surrogate for a human listener."
The headphone has to "compensate" for the skipped part of the HRTF to achive the same tonal balance as the loudspeakers, and because everyone has a different HRTF there can never be one headphone that does this exactly correct for everyone. Everyone would need a different headphone (or different EQ for the headphone).
If however you have a loudspeaker in a room that measures flat at the listening position then it will be objectively flat for everyone (sitting in that position).
Now still for you yourself that 2 dB here or there or whatever may matter because of your personal HRTF, but for everyone else it is a random change that could be better or worse or equally bad in the other direction. Maybe that is what's really bothering
@bigshot, that such details of your "personal optimal headphone curve" are meaningless for everyone else.
And worrying about response curves on speakers is a waste of time. You can buy a speaker with the most perfect response possible on paper and drop it in your living room and it will be a mile away. THE ROOM is as important to the sound of the speakers as the speakers themselves. When I buy speakers I never bother with response curves. I just want to know the frequency extension and how loud they can get without distorting. The rest is up to the arrangement of the room and equalization.
This I can not fully agree with. I gather you didn't look at the Floyd Toole video that ADUHF posted earliet in this thread?
They did subjective listening tests with many people and many loudspeakers, and did so called spinorama measurements of the loudspeakers (measuring the frequency response on many different axis). They found that loudspeakers that had a similar frequency response off axis in various directions compared to on axis are preferred. If such a loudspeaker is not flat it is not necessarily a problem: that can be EQd. If however the off axis response is very different from on axis you can not fix that with EQ.
He says a lot more of course, but from the above it seems it could be worth while to look at a loudspeaker's spinorama before buying.