in action, in one of my equipment shelves:

the setup is a 'mocha' DTS/DD5.1/spdif DAC going into my new pimeta phones amp. from there the audio either goes to the phones or if you unplug the phones, the audio continues on to the behringer a500 amp. that amp drives some maggies (the cheap mailorder $500 pair ones).
I used to have a boring old yamaha 'all in one' box that did all this. now, I have a better DAC, no real preamp (no need), no tuner (no need), all my sources are now digital - and once they get converted to analog they go to my stereo amp or to my headphones. pretty simple. I run in 2.1 mode with a velo. as a sub off in the corner somewhere.
when I added the 'cut the spkrs/amp out' switch to my phones DIY box, I could get rid of the last ugly switchbox I had and now my 'stack' is simpler and less cluttered.
the IR remote in the phono was from an online kits place (I forget the one) and it included the prebuilt IR sender and a bag of parts (not even a pc board) and preprogrammed chip for receiver. that remote has the bottom 2 buttons mapped to the motorized pot for volume up/down. sort of a waste of a multi-button remote, but hey, all it NEEDED was vol up/down

not pictured: a popcorn hour box. its one of the spdif sources to all this and its on the shelf above. also not pictured is a DTV tivo with opto spdif out. that's my other digital source going into the DAC box.