Agreed! One of the most common personality traits many of us have is to criticize the person rather than the action (or comment). Conversely, many, too easily, take criticism as a personal affront, rather than to realize criticism usually is directed at a single action, or God forbid, at a possession of yours that others may not like as well as you do. It is not an attack on the person you are. Understanding this, I believe, is where the maturity factor comes into play, though some may never get it. I've said it countless times, this is just a hobby, and we should have fun with it.