Am i hearing my name? Well my secret is letting her spend also on her hobby (fashion etc)..eventhough i disagree sometimes what she spends on some stuff she buys..and yeah..she also hides/ lies a bit about the buys..but i do as if i dont know..(ofcourse i know!! I do my homework.its my job.always..lolz) and so we are in a balance...sort off...treat each other with respect and some space..and u wont have any problems..i mean...if ur budget allows it ofcourse!!!! Its stupid to spend money if u need it for ur family or something else important in ur life...thats stupid...on every account...or dont do things with ur loved ones as u need the money for ur hobyy..any hobby!!! Cars (I know!), jewelry (watches anyone?), bikes etc..all expensive hobbies...and all have to be second to ur personal life...it helps u to be a more balanced person..sometimes...but its an extra in life...IMHO ofcourse!!!! What i do is put 300euro aside (sometimes more depends what i wanna buy) and transfer it to my secret paypal account..and so no one sees what i have:-) and i ALWAYS SAY that i bought my stuff second hand...wifey does the same thing...but she just bought me a nice new audio rack (see my new pics) for my birthday with my daughter..that was a.HUGE SURPRISE!!!!!.. So i have a feeling she knows all..but keeps the peace so she can buy her stuff..lolz
Yes, your Code-X were burning
See, equanimity, even in hiding/deceiving/lying. Win-win, up until bankruptcy (not you, just in general). I assume she's not getting pissed off at you for your hobby purchases, else we'd have heard about it.
OK, I'll stop derailing the roller coaster. Just a bloody mess