Now, if you were single, you get someone else to rub it in for you!
The cats of course. Can't argue with a cat.
Speaking of which - a new update on the cat dating story - my neighbours seems to have moved onto their dogs as well (I saw a couple with their dogs in raincoats setting things up this morning), although that's not as surprising. I swear this block is where all the pet people in Vancouver aggregate abound.
On the human front no such luck yet. Not a very romantic year in the city of rain.
But hopefully you arent doing it now right? But if it felt good then you must have been under tremendous pressure in many ways.
You cant tell the diffrence between things when you eat? Darn that sucks cuz im a real foodie :)
Interesting way of looking at it. But dating someone who does -- well maybe dating is a bad idea. But you should definately stay friends. Like ive learned that the friends that i have gotten closest to are the ones in need of psychological help because it establishes depth to our relationship, which builds trust and can later be expanded on. So I agree that dating those who need help may not be optimal, but helping those who need it can lead to dating. Im not a fan of dating people without really getting to know them first, and although it may seem very picky, it makes the experience a whole lot more worthwhile.
I disagree when u say they are beyond help and how this can lead to screwing up your life. Life is full of screwups, but these mainly become experiences that teach you more about how to interact with people and choose who to bond with or not.
But yea you should never date others to "fix" them up; a romantic commitment means that you both find each other ideal and are willing to establish something more beyond a friendship -- or else your best date would probably be your psychologist lol.
But you say "you learned the hard way." What happened?
My story was here: http://www.head-fi.org/t/664938/worst-date-stories/330#post_9618436
Umm wasn't she cutting herself too?
Her new bf isn't a vampire. He's not even on the show. He kinda looks like a vampire though.