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You guys are too young and have too much to look forward to....whether you end up together for the long haul or not, suicide is not the answer to your problems! Things can only get better if you're feeling this depressed.....there has to be something to live for, even if it is not each other. Think of the pain you'd cause your family and friends....suicide is for quitters. Don't be a quitter....be a fighter!
Your family doesn't like you because you're still a teenager, welcome to the club, been there, done that.
Think about all the friends you'll have later in life, their lives will have been a little emptier without you.
When you're depressed, you don't always look at the big picture, as you're caught up in the immediate context of your life.
As you get older, and have survived more of life's battles you realise there's more to life than what's in front of you.
Depressions are caused by a chemical imbalance http://psychcentral.com/news/2006/11/09/depressions-chemical-imbalance-explained/398.html.
I'm not saying your life isn't hard, but understanding the reason for the pain is very helpful for me! Just know, that it Can be cured, and this is not a feeling you need to have for the rest of your life. I suggest you find professional help, they will be able to help you out and fix this imbalance. Maybe you don't need drugs, maybe you just need a friend and a good night's sleep.
Another thing, do you sleep enough? Sleep deprivement can cause many psychological disorders, never forget to sleep enough friend!
Well, it is possible to take action on your own. Seek help somewhere, go to a social worker or something. They will help you.
What would they tell your parents, that you asked for help because you are depressed? :p
Social workers are mostly pretty cool, they probably wouldn't tell your parents if you asked them.