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post #436 of 1381
Originally Posted by gopanthersgo1 View Post

You know what you said, in case you decide to edit it out later

 

Oh deary me gpg, hang in there.
 
It's foolish to continue to live your life just for one person, you should be soldiering on for all of your friends and family.
 
Don't let them down.
post #437 of 1381
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Originally Posted by deadlylover View Post

Oh deary me gpg, hang in there.
 
It's foolish to continue to live your life just for one person, you should be soldiering on for all of your friends and family.
 
Don't let them down.
my family doesn't really like me and I only have one real good friend... :/
post #438 of 1381
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Originally Posted by gopanthersgo1 View Post

My ex just said she loved me. O.O I'm honestly shocked, also I fell back into depression and so did she, I had to convince her not to kill herself. :/ Dayam I love her, but it's not a good time for a relationship, at all. :/ Though I would but I don't think that it will last but a week...

 

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also,even more surprising, is that since she said she thought of suicide a bit today and I said I did to, that if I did die, it'd probably push her over the edge... and if she died or killed herself, I'd do the same honestly, death seems appealing, no worries or anything, but I won't because I want to make her happy. :/ My life is stressful enough, and if she wasn't I'm it I'd probably be dead on an OD anyways.... :|

 

You guys are too young and have too much to look forward to....whether you end up together for the long haul or not, suicide is not the answer to your problems! Things can only get better if you're feeling this depressed.....there has to be something to live for, even if it is not each other. Think of the pain you'd cause your family and friends....suicide is for quitters. Don't be a quitter....be a fighter! smile_phones.gif

post #439 of 1381
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my family doesn't really like me and I only have one real good friend... :/

One real good friend is enough reason to stick around.smile.gif

post #440 of 1381
Originally Posted by gopanthersgo1 View Post

my family doesn't really like me and I only have one real good friend... :/

 

Your family doesn't like you because you're still a teenager, welcome to the club, been there, done that. wink.gif

 

Think about all the friends you'll have later in life, their lives will have been a little emptier without you.

post #441 of 1381
Originally Posted by Achmedisdead View Post

One real good friend is enough reason to stick around.smile.gif

 

Indeed it is.

post #442 of 1381

When you're depressed, you don't always look at the big picture, as you're caught up in the immediate context of your life.

 

As you get older, and have survived more of life's battles you realise there's more to life than what's in front of you.

post #443 of 1381

I've always felt Head-fi was a more homely, accepting forum than others.. but only now have i been proved utterly right.

everyone here is with you gpg and the TMAC community is too. hold strong bro .

post #444 of 1381
Thank you everybody for the kind words! <3 It's not just her why I'm all depressed and shizz, and I feel if sometrhing really bad happened it might just be too much at the moment. Once I start to get ahold of my life than I could take it if something bad happened, it might end up being just a tad too much. frown.gif It'd just make me really irrational and depressed too much. :‘(
post #445 of 1381
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Thank you everybody for the kind words! <3 It's not just her why I'm all depressed and shizz, and I feel if sometrhing really bad happened it might just be too much at the moment. Once I start to get ahold of my life than I could take it if something bad happened, it might end up being just a tad too much. frown.gif It'd just make me really irrational and depressed too much. :‘(

Depressions are caused by a chemical imbalance http://psychcentral.com/news/2006/11/09/depressions-chemical-imbalance-explained/398.html.

I'm not saying your life isn't hard, but understanding the reason for the pain is very helpful for me! Just know, that it Can be cured, and this is not a feeling you need  to have for the rest of your life. I suggest you find professional help, they will be able to help you out and fix this imbalance. Maybe you don't need drugs, maybe you just need a friend and a good night's sleep.

 

Another thing, do you sleep enough? Sleep deprivement can cause many psychological disorders, never forget to sleep enough friend!

post #446 of 1381
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Depressions are caused by a chemical imbalance http://psychcentral.com/news/2006/11/09/depressions-chemical-imbalance-explained/398.html
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I'm not saying your life isn't hard, but understanding the reason for the pain is very helpful for me! Just know, that it Can be cured, and this is not a feeling you need  to have for the rest of your life. I suggest you find professional help, they will be able to help you out and fix this imbalance. Maybe you don't need drugs, maybe you just need a friend and a good night's sleep.

Another thing, do you sleep enough? Sleep deprivement can cause many psychological disorders, never forget to sleep enough friend!
My parents don't understand depression at all, so therapy isn't an option and my sleep is horrible do the stress and depression. frown.gif
post #447 of 1381
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My parents don't understand depression at all, so therapy isn't an option and my sleep is horrible do the stress and depression. frown.gif

Well, it is possible to take action on your own. Seek help somewhere, go to a social worker or something. They will help you.

post #448 of 1381
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Well, it is possible to take action on your own. Seek help somewhere, go to a social worker or something. They will help you.
I'd bring it up at school, but I'm not 18 so they're entitled to talk to my parents about it. :/
post #449 of 1381
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I'd bring it up at school, but I'm not 18 so they're entitled to talk to my parents about it. :/

What would they tell your parents, that you asked for help because you are depressed? :p

Social workers are mostly pretty cool, they probably wouldn't tell your parents if you asked them.

post #450 of 1381
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Originally Posted by Marleybob217 View Post

What would they tell your parents, that you asked for help because you are depressed? tongue.gif
Social workers are mostly pretty cool, they probably wouldn't tell your parents if you asked them.
Gotcha, but there's some stuff that cant be spoken until I turn 18 that's really stressful... :/ I start Monday, probably best anyways so I don't beat up some ****** bag because of stress anyways... :/
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