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post #421 of 1334
Why all the hate for psychologists and psychology majors? I was a psychology major :O and my female peers were great. Maybe a bit nerdy, but fine otherwise.
post #422 of 1334
Well let me tell you about the past month of my life... :P Let's just say it involves pedophiles, bicycles, paintings, pictures, a hitman (I KNOW, FREAKING SCARY), vacation, night time, Kik, and more! biggrin.gif No but really, I have a pretty screwed up life. :/
post #423 of 1334
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Originally Posted by blueangel2323 View Post

Why all the hate for psychologists and psychology majors? I was a psychology major :O and my female peers were great. Maybe a bit nerdy, but fine otherwise.

Overgeneralization.

 

Although, I too know a couple of female psychology students, and they mainly went in that direction to uncover their own strange psyche.

I also just saw a talk on TED, about a female psychiatrist, who was heavily abused in her childhood, and is a schizophrenic. So again, correlation might be observed, but this certainly does not guarantee causation.

 

Regarding the decision to avoid people or not, why not just, ehm avoid blind dates? :D

It's probably best to date people you already know slightly. Or when internetdating, get to know the person, use a freaking webcam. I know this isn't always possible, but blind dates are always so forced. So glad I'm already taken :3

post #424 of 1334
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Originally Posted by gopanthersgo1 View Post

Well let me tell you about the past month of my life... :P Let's just say it involves pedophiles, bicycles, paintings, pictures, a hitman (I KNOW, FREAKING SCARY), vacation, night time, Kik, and more! biggrin.gif No but really, I have a pretty screwed up life. :/

 

I'm trying to relate all those things together and I can't get it to make sense :p

By the way, I've always been curious, what is that blob of crap that you have as your location?

post #425 of 1334
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Originally Posted by Marleybob217 View Post

Overgeneralization.

 

Although, I too know a couple of female psychology students, and they mainly went in that direction to uncover their own strange psyche.

I also just saw a talk on TED, about a female psychiatrist, who was heavily abused in her childhood, and is a schizophrenic. So again, correlation might be observed, but this certainly does not guarantee causation.

 

Regarding the decision to avoid people or not, why not just, ehm avoid blind dates? :D

It's probably best to date people you already know slightly. Or when internetdating, get to know the person, use a freaking webcam. I know this isn't always possible, but blind dates are always so forced. So glad I'm already taken :3

 

That is a bit ironic. But what's funny is that I actually never took the abnormal psychology course in my program, which is the first thing people think of when they think of psychology. The pleasant side of psychology, e.g. social, personality, developmental, have some pretty nice women in them :)
post #426 of 1334
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I once met this gal who was super judgmental and controlling right from the start. She couldn't believe that I had such an old cell phone and told me it was unacceptable and practically demanded that I had to change it. She seemed upset when I said I liked it just the way it was. We were going to the symphony and she was criticizing how I was dressed. I had a decent shirt on, but I had just some standard khakis on because it was a friggen -40 outside and I was double layered. Yeesh, it's not like she was dressed up fancy or anything. I would have snarked back, but I figured I should be better than that. Anyhow, this sort of thing goes on all night. It was all on the first date and I was not impressed.

 

Strangely, maybe I made a good impression. We said our goodbyes and she actually moves in for the quick kiss. It was almost mechanical, but whatever. The next day she texts me, doesn't even say anything about having a good time, and just says "let's go out next Tuesday" or something to that effect. I figure ok, maybe give the benefit of the doubt, and I happened to be free that night.

 

So date #2, not quite as awkward, but ugh just no spark or anything whatsoever. We say our goodbyes, and she again does the quick peck and leaves. A few days goes by and nothing. I figure I should at least be a responsible gentleman about it and message her saying I had a nice time but didn't really feel any spark. I get a reply "yeah me too. bye".

 

Just strange. She was a very attractive girl, and not crazy per se, but so frigid and borderline condescending. I don't think she really meant to be, but that's just how she was.

post #427 of 1334
That reminds me, back in university I met this very attractive girl who was a former actress. She was very, very, very nice. Like, over-the-top nice. Overly polite, spoke really slowly and distinctly, and repeated questions back at you before responding. It felt like she was speaking to a little child. I found it condescending, regardless of whether that was her intention or not. It felt really awkward and uncomfortable talking to her. It was really disappointing, as I was pretty crazy about her.
post #428 of 1334
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Originally Posted by blueangel2323 View Post

I'm trying to relate all those things together and I can't get it to make sense tongue.gif
By the way, I've always been curious, what is that blob of crap that you have as your location?
It makes sense, but none must be explained, ever.

Also, location, IDK, something B1o2r3i4s5 linked. tongue.gif
post #429 of 1334

I just ended my 4 year relationship so I could enjoy being a lower 20 year old in college.

 

 

Expect me to post here often.

post #430 of 1334
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Have a drink mate... beerchug.gif

post #431 of 1334
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Originally Posted by Armaegis View Post

Have a drink mate... beerchug.gif
Actually, have a couple. wink.gif
post #432 of 1334
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Originally Posted by gopanthersgo1 View Post


Actually, have a couple.

You guys wanna pony up your phone numbers so Mr Heartache can call YOU in the middle of the night to share alcohol soaked reminiscencesbiggrin.gif

post #433 of 1334
Thread Starter 

Random story: I was hanging out with some buddies of mine and we were chatting about how we all put on different faces depending on the crowd we're in. I commented...

 

me: "I only know two faces of Craig... happy Craig, and drunk Craig"

Craig: "when have you ever met drunk Craig?"

me: "drunk Craig calls me all the time"

 

We had a good laugh over that one. rolleyes.gif

post #434 of 1334
My ex just said she loved me. O.O I'm honestly shocked, also I fell back into depression and so did she, I had to convince her not to kill herself. :/ Dayam I love her, but it's not a good time for a relationship, at all. :/ Though I would but I don't think that it will last but a week...
post #435 of 1334
also,even more surprising, is that since she said she thought of suicide a bit today and I said I did to, that if I did die, it'd probably push her over the edge... and if she died or killed herself, I'd do the same honestly, death seems appealing, no worries or anything, but I won't because I want to make her happy. :/ My life is stressful enough, and if she wasn't I'm it I'd probably be dead on an OD anyways.... :|
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