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post #1216 of 1351
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I don't know if I've actually gotten worse as I get older, but at least I'm realizing more and more that I'm terrible at interpreting the body language of girls I'm interested in. It doesn't help that my "type" is the bubbly, smiley type of girl who's so friendly that guys mistake it for flirting all the time. There's this girl that I'm currently interested in, and some of the things she's been saying to me would be unmistakably flirting if she were a normal girl, but nope, I won't make that assumption because she's got that "accidental flirt" personality type. The only way to find out is to ask her out, but I'm also hesitant to do that because if she says no, I'll still be seeing her every day at work.

 

 

The bubbly flirty types are so hard to read, and if you call them on it most of the time they won't believe you anyways. But heck, ask her out anyways. So what if she says no? As long as you make the attempt relaxed and casual and she turns it down with some grace, then no harm no foul, and there's no reason for things to be awkward.

post #1217 of 1351
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The bubbly flirty types are so hard to read, and if you call them on it most of the time they won't believe you anyways. But heck, ask her out anyways. So what if she says no? As long as you make the attempt relaxed and casual and she turns it down with some grace, then no harm no foul, and there's no reason for things to be awkward.

And do the materialistic test xP somehow somewhat somewhere, a girl in my class realized I was sitting in a BMW to school... Immediately she says "hi" to me everyday whenever she sees me and tries to interact with me which she don't do to other "poor" boys or even girls. Pretty cute face but no thanks ._. Pretty much ignored all the kindness she shows these days. SO FAKE!

^just a caution biggrin.gif

About courage to speak up, I literally fails it today! I promised myself that if my "ZoroHD" review gets featured, I will held my best (girl) friend's hand and tell her how I feel with no intention or expecting her to give positive responds. Ended up with telling her "bye" after school >.> I was already standing and facing the exit door in the lab waiting for her already xD but I wasn't in a good mood just now anyway for some reasons biggrin.gif

Before that, earlier, was assembly time (not sure why though, at my level, there is still assembly), I was standing right behind her, found her kept on picking on me to the state that a dude around me asked her why she kept turning back looking at me. I thought it's not a good time to say anything to her so I just look at somewhere else with intention of not looking at her (eg, the big clock in the hall/stage/speaker)
post #1218 of 1351
Soooo I said what I wanted to say already. At first she said she wanted to have some time to think about it. So I wrote some letter to her in the mean time though I didn't show it until she told me that she couldn't go out with me and asked if we still can be friend. I got over that fast as I was prepared to hear the best/worse answer before I told her anything.

Later on, I sent her my very last letter to her. She read it and she said that she's brushing already xD and asked since when was I so "sweet" I then suggested that it was only towards her. She said she feel special now. Then we continue the talk >.> funny how it is a Whatsapp chat but I use pen and paper to write and send to her instead hehe

Kind of the worst "date" to me but okay ._.
post #1219 of 1351
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Kudos man. Usually letters wind up being a bad idea... but glad to hear it turned out ok (sorta).

 

And consider it a valuable lesson that girls like to feel special. Buuuuuuut, there's an extremely fine line between making them feel special and overdoing it/smothering/awkwardness/etc. And of course, this line is completely and utterly different for every girl.

post #1220 of 1351
I was walking with her. Was supposed to say it myself, but the night before, I wrote a letter in case I can't say it. At the end, I made use of the letter. She already know what's going on (not gonna tell what we said). I just ran away the moment she opened it ._.

She wasn't sure what she was supposed to do so she messaged her friend who later tell me about it. She was shocked to make a decision: she wasn't sure if she's ready >.>
post #1221 of 1351

I got dumped by letter once. I suppose it's better than getting dumped by text. Still kinda crappy, though.

post #1222 of 1351
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A friend of mine got dumped on the phone while his gf was having sex with his replacement. Talk about no class :confused_face:

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I got dumped by letter once. I suppose it's better than getting dumped by text. Still kinda crappy, though.

Don't girls like letter over text? And letter over conversation about "like/love" a few years back a girl likes me though I definitely don't feel the same and that's what exactly she prefer. As a bad boy, I did the opposite xD she complains about almost everything so no thanks >.> very much prefer my current one HAHAHAHHAA
post #1224 of 1351
Breakup BEFORE replacement sex. Or is it still ok as long as you haven't climaxed. Haha
post #1225 of 1351
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It sucks no matter which way you look at it. My ex was dicking around with my replacement for three months before she dumped me in the middle of a cruise, and he was even on the boat with us and pretended to be my friend and mined me for intel. It took me months to get over the depression and figure out the charade. Lord almighty if I ever see him around I'm not sure I'll be able to stop myself from tearing out his throat with my bare hands.

post #1226 of 1351
I don't get it ._.
post #1227 of 1351
Wow
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Originally Posted by Armaegis View Post

A friend of mine got dumped on the phone while his gf was having sex with his replacement. Talk about no class confused_face.gif

Wow you mate must have slaughtered children in his previous life to deserve that
post #1228 of 1351
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A friend of mine got dumped on the phone while his gf was having sex with his replacement. Talk about no class :confused_face:

 

Ouch ouch ouch. I feel sorry for your mate now...

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I was walking with her. Was supposed to say it myself, but the night before, I wrote a letter in case I can't say it. At the end, I made use of the letter. She already know what's going on (not gonna tell what we said). I just ran away the moment she opened it ._.

She wasn't sure what she was supposed to do so she messaged her friend who later tell me about it. She was shocked to make a decision: she wasn't sure if she's ready >.>

People are sometimes scared of change - I think its perfectly normal for her to be shocked!


Anyways, there's this classmate of mine and I swear everyone ships us. I also keep getting comments about how she fancies me but I don't see the point as I'm switching schools after this school year and I'm not good with long-distance relationships. 

post #1229 of 1351
Indeed. We are fear lf changes in life xD she did attempt to tell me something last year. She was like "So we know each other for 6 years now and I hardly talk to guys" everyone was like "owhhhhhh" I stopped her with "Yes, I know! How do you do this question again?" Clearly wasn't ready last year. No regred though, am happy that we didnt go full strangers xD she wasnt ready this time haha
post #1230 of 1351

Back in the day there was this girl I was interested in. One weekend she was at a club and I couldn't get in because the line was too long. The next day she said it was a shame I couldn't get in becuase she would have hooked up with me if I had. The next week, while we were in class together, I got an IM from a male hometown friend of hers (living on the other side of the country)  who said the girl "asked me to tell you not to talk to her any more, becuase you annoy her."

 

P.S. This was not grade school. This was in grad school.

 

P.P.S I am literally the least annoying person in the entire world.

 

P.P.P.S WTH?!?

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