This is my 2nd order with Lend Me Ur Ears. My 1st order was shipped very quickly and with prompt communication. This time the order processing and email replies have been noticeably slower but like you said it's probably because of the larger than normal volume of orders. I'm sure my order will be shipped soon or at least I hope so. Enjoy your VC02 when you get them.
I had a similar experience. As Vsonic has gotten more notoriety, Lendmeurears has gotten slower. As best as I can tell, it's a very small operation. Be patient, they're decent guys, just probably a little overwhelmed by their current sales volume.