Guide me: Best on ear headphone, for iPod Touch, under $200, with 90 degree connector to iPod

I'm looking for your headphone suggestions based on this:

-- on ear

--  must be able to control iPod Touch (skip, play, backward, volume)

--  64 ohm or less to conserve power

--  phone cable connection to iPod must NOT be straight (45 or 90 degrees since (I've bend straight ones quickly by accident by sitting in the car)

--  under $200

Essentially I'll have them any time I'm outside while listening to my iPod Touch 64.  Shopping, commuting, and other activities ranging from 20 minutes to 5 hours daily is the norm.  I've currently am demo'ing the Bose OE3 and they are nice but I got the ones without the iPod control by accident.  I like that they're fairly small (but even smaller would be nice as I look like a martian when I'm in the grocery store!).

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I saw this thread but I have a couple of extra constraints

http://www.head-fi.org/t/591963/best-on-ear-headphones-driven-by-ipod-touch-no-amp-budget-up-to-200 

Man I'm glad I joined up here getting responses from guys who know headphones.  I just watched the video review of the M-80 and his review seemed nice:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aAwm-14yBDc

I don't know the reviewers audio background but he was able to name off many other headphones at ease and seemed convincing and not pushy.  It fits my requirements above and I've now edited my OP to say I'll take anything but straight cable connection.  

I'll hold out for some more suggestions from the community as I don't have to buy anything for maybe a week.  Further, If I get the M-80 I'd like a matte black finish if available as it would seem to blend in the most with everything.  Where would I buy the phones at the good price from a reputable dealer (no fakes)?

Well I'll hold off another day to see if there are more responses.  If the majority say V-Moda M-80 then I'll order one tomorrow.

Where is the best price for the V-Moda M-80 from a reputable online seller?  I have not decided on which color yet but am leaning toward inconspicuous as possible maybe black....

I got my headphones three days ago for $161 at Amazon.  The sound is quite amazing and the built quality seems to be high. Engineers really cared how it was made and apparently did not want a lot of breakage.  The size of the cups is almost perfect and the seal is good.

On the con side the cups don't extend low enough for my taste.  I have a buzz cut and the phones fully extended barely reach the proper point on my ears.  If I'm wearing a hat I have to choose to squash the hat to get the proper positioning or just wear the cups a little high (not by much).

But the one thing that is pretty much a deal-breaker is the pressure these things exert on my ears!  Like a darn vice.  I wear phones for long periods.  Yesterday for 4 hours and I was relieved when I finally took them off in my car to listen to my car stereo.  I wear glasses with the frame memory metal also so they deform and bounce back fine.  But the M-80 kept crushing my ears something fierce.

A day earlier I bent the phones so that the cans would angle slightly forward to contour to my ears and that worked rather well.  I tried to full extend the band horizontal to make them not crush my head so much but that did not work enough.  Is there a way to make these not crush so hard?

For two weeks I demo'ed the Bose OE-2 and thought they were light-weight, cups fit nice since they were oval like our ears, and okay.  They did not sound as good as some but were very comfortable.  Yet I bought the ones without the iPod controls so that was a deal-breaker there having to reach down to my iPod to advance songs

So now I'm in limbo again.  Accept the poorer sound but better comfort of the OE-2 or accept the powerful grip of the M-80...Or if there are other alternatives?