For those who want to be both cheap & safe: Go to a local audiologist, have him make a set of professional molds. If you ask them for the raw molds (as in whatever they pull out of your ear, without further finishing), it's usually very cheap (I think I payed +/- €10). You can now use these to make a replica of your ear canal (I used plaster as that was all I had). You can now make your own DIY molds from your replica ear canal without risking your ears (and you can see what you are doing much much better). At first I thought there might be a problem with the accuracy of my replica ear canal, and I had to do them over a couple of times, but once I got it right, it worked like a charm.
Too bad I threw all that stuff out, I need to drop by the audiologist and experiment with this a little more....